Some catch up. Deb, I’m going to DC to visit with Sassy, and hopefully Lea. The plan is to do a detailed blog about it with lots of writing and photos and shit (ok not literal shit). Lea. Great thought about the toothbrush and face cloth. I’m travelling for at least 30 hours and 45 minutes (if my base 60… (more…)
Are we all seated comfortably? Ok let us begin. Four or five months ago I got a call from a salesperson wanting me to switch my phone and internet provider to Telecom. They were actually offering a really good deal and I probably would have agreed but that I was still under contract with Slingshot. During that conversation we talked… (more…)
A couple of people emailed me with suggestions about how I could finance a tablet. Thank you for that information, but the fact is a tablet isn’t something I need, it’s not essential for my study or planned future. It’s just a really cool gadget that I saw and when “ohh shinyâ€. Yes if I had gotten a $20 000… (more…)
I’ve really had a fucked up day. My brain is all over the place. Even when one person can remain stable their thinking gets all weird. I’m not sure. Part of it is my leg and we are worried about the edema issue. If I stay in bed with my legs up my feet look like human feet, if not… (more…)
When I hear people whispering about reading 50 Shades of Grey, and how it’s so extreme and pornography, I really want to bash my head repeatedly against my desk. However I am not about to out myself to these people so I grind my teeth and say nothing. Now I haven’t read the book, but the bits I have either… (more…)
I got online this morning to find someone had turned my yahoo pink. Oh god the horror. In a fit of boredom last night I decided to watch last years season of So You Think You Can Dance. I love the show and am currently watching season 9 online, but I think they only ever played a couple of seasons… (more…)
So when I decided to go have a look at the multiplicity related forums on Fetlife, I remembered why I don’t hang out there much anymore. It appears there has been a push to trigger warn everything in the last few weeks. I never noticed any trigger warnings when I first started going around them. And if there were it… (more…)
I was speaking to a friend today. She said she had terrible social phobia. It was odd, because really I haven’t heard anyone use that term outside of the therapy setting. I thought, damn someone I can relate to, until she got talking. Now I don’t mean to sound judgemental, but really it probably was very judgemental of me. What… (more…)
Friday sucked to the degree of losing time and spinning out of control. All because we decided to treat ourselves by having sushi for dinner. The sushi we like is at the back of a mall which isn’t usually a big deal until we discover they have put on some Easter show in the centre of the mall. It could… (more…)
I get the feeling sometimes that because I talk about doing well, because I speak up about working for a good life, the life we want, rather than the life imposed upon us by our family and society that some people think it’s all just come really easy to us, or it has always been that way. I often get… (more…)